May 30, 2014
The transition from military life to civilian life can often be a difficult one. What were once ordinary tasks and routines can seem difficult and stressful. Of those stressful situations, the job hunt can be one of the hardest to adjust to. The extra stress added on you during a job search may also put additional strain on your relationships, both romantic and amicable. During the transition, you go from having a strict and determined military schedule to complete uncertainty. Your schedule may alter dramatically or disappear altogether. It is not uncommon to feel depressed and misguided. Some of these lost feelings may come from the tightening of finances, or the loss of regular income. These factors not only take a toll on your mental health, but on the health of your personal relationships. The following three steps take tips from a Monster community post and a Forward First Coaching article to provide advice on how to keep strong relationships and create support systems during periods of unemployment. Step One is to anticipate the possibility of unemployment. For veterans, it is possible to acknowledge that the transition from military to civilian life may contain unemployment. Use this foresight to your advantage. Sit down and talk with your family about the current financial situation and how it may change in the future. While it may seem uncomfortable to talk about your finances now, open communication can help to reduce strain on relationships and avoid stress later on. Step Two is to […]